Unsaid Things
A private holding place for what you are not ready to say yet.
- Takes
- about 3 minutes
- Who takes part
- just you
- Account
- needed, for both of you
You will be asked to sign in first. It is free.
What this one does
Write the thing down. Decide later whether to share it, rephrase it, or let it go. Entries stay private to you unless you explicitly choose to share one, and you can delete anything at any time.
What it will not do
Nothing here is shared automatically, ever. This is not a channel for sending your partner a message indirectly.
It also will not diagnose either of you, will not name a condition, and will not cite research, because there is no research behind it to cite. It is a structure for a conversation.
How it actually works
You write the thing as it actually is in your head
Not a tidied-up version. The tool is less useful if you edit yourself first, and nobody else is reading it.
It is yours and it stays yours
Kept to your account, never surfaced to a partner under any sharing setting, and deletable at any time.
You decide later what to do with it
Share it, rewrite it, or let it go. Nothing here sends anything to anybody on your behalf.
This takes about 3 minutes.
Free, and it stays free. There is no step later on where this asks for money.
Others in this group
10 minBoth of you
Two-Sided Story
You each describe the same moment separately, then read both accounts side by side.
8 minBoth of you
How Well Do You Know Me?
Answer about yourself, guess about each other, then see where the guesses land.
6 minJust you
Emotional Translation
Rewrite something you want to say so it can be heard instead of defended against.
This is not therapy, and it is not safe to use as leverage.
Between Us is not counselling or a clinical assessment, and it does not know your situation. If you are frightened of your partner, or if you are being pressured into using something like this, please stop and look at these resources instead.
Related reading: How to Talk About What Isn't Working